tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071961561223468769.post6381252419127735117..comments2023-10-09T21:08:30.960+08:00Comments on .......53 Buddhas and Me .................My Life Adventures.....: Being ResponsibleDavinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06252641438455940748noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071961561223468769.post-65065155018065534512010-02-22T11:13:36.534+08:002010-02-22T11:13:36.534+08:00Take care of you first and for most!! Writing will...Take care of you first and for most!! Writing will help.gaylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00894920637532415315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071961561223468769.post-36679349174039656332010-02-21T19:00:27.300+08:002010-02-21T19:00:27.300+08:00Take each day as it comes but it seems like you ar...Take each day as it comes but it seems like you are already going along the right lines with your 'me' time. :0)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071961561223468769.post-51524596863922870272010-02-21T16:33:00.561+08:002010-02-21T16:33:00.561+08:00Hello Davine,
You must take each day as it comes &...Hello Davine,<br />You must take each day as it comes & don't be hard on yourself. Quite a transition you're going through now. <br />Your father sounded like a lovely genteel man & you've certainly done him justice with all your love & care, together with your tribute to him as a parent.<br />It will take awhile to re-adjust, but thankfully you seem to have some wonderful friends around you besides your own family, which will be a blessing.<br />Take Great Care Davine, Thinking of You!Shirleyannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12219451442180410908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071961561223468769.post-89759830340398751702010-02-21T12:45:04.474+08:002010-02-21T12:45:04.474+08:00Davine, Rome was not built in a day. Take as much ...Davine, Rome was not built in a day. Take as much time as you need and do what you must for yourself. Our personal growth comes in many forms and shapes, it comes through pleasures and pains. My heart goes out to you tonight. Huge hugs sent your way from across the miles.darlinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04886502544010479581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071961561223468769.post-34385560350840463012010-02-21T10:21:42.989+08:002010-02-21T10:21:42.989+08:00Bless your heart Davine - sending hugs! Your fath...Bless your heart Davine - sending hugs! Your father sounded like a wonderfully gentle man and you wrote of him so lovingly. Another chapter begins now - it's always one after the other as we're on our journey.Susan Blakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06755153568864508986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071961561223468769.post-2295307160822864792010-02-21T09:53:26.433+08:002010-02-21T09:53:26.433+08:00When my Dad passed away last year, driving home I ...When my Dad passed away last year, driving home I saw a nursey called "The Garden of Eden". I went in an bought a rosemary bush to remember my Dad. Now it has grown much bigger and every time I pick a piece to add to the roast or whatever I'm cooking, it's as though Dad was there with me at the dinner table.<br />Take care.BlossomFlowerGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00771668346318423898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071961561223468769.post-42342199382173247362010-02-21T09:05:37.201+08:002010-02-21T09:05:37.201+08:00I am truly sorry for your loss and can certainly i...I am truly sorry for your loss and can certainly identify with what you are going through. Take some time for yourself. Deep breaths. Spend some time getting to know yourself. Us women tend to be caretakers, never taking time for us, never getting to know and truly love ourselves. My thoughts and prayers are with you.<br />Marymxtodis123https://www.blogger.com/profile/13583200601379394225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071961561223468769.post-4454973358412462412010-02-21T06:18:23.182+08:002010-02-21T06:18:23.182+08:00it all must be so overwhelming Davine, I can't...it all must be so overwhelming Davine, I can't imagine what this must be like for you. Sending you good wishes and virtual Hugs<br /><br />A'ishaA'ishahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00290361523410274020noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071961561223468769.post-80923129990694006192010-02-21T05:57:07.968+08:002010-02-21T05:57:07.968+08:00Thanks Julie, Thank you so much for words, today I...Thanks Julie, Thank you so much for words, today I feel exhausted so I am just going to sit. My thoughts are with you and your Dad.Davinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06252641438455940748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071961561223468769.post-7964641192225785572010-02-21T04:57:02.138+08:002010-02-21T04:57:02.138+08:00The sudden lifting of the weight on your shoulders...The sudden lifting of the weight on your shoulders leads to disorientation, doesn't it. But you know this will ease. i agree that to be responsible for your OWN pleasure is the most challenging of tasks. I am working towards resolving that, too, even though my Dad is still with me, but down the road.<br /><br />Take a couple of days ... sort out the remaining issues ... and take the next two months slowly. We are here with you.Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09513648613788716017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071961561223468769.post-5271510423963400782010-02-21T04:29:52.817+08:002010-02-21T04:29:52.817+08:00Oh Linda they are such wise words and words I need...Oh Linda they are such wise words and words I need at the moment - thank you<br />C.J - Yeah heres hoping we do - it is a bit weird though isn't it?Davinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06252641438455940748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071961561223468769.post-42674228475416024092010-02-21T03:32:19.970+08:002010-02-21T03:32:19.970+08:00good for you, and I know the feeling, its exhilera...good for you, and I know the feeling, its exhilerating and a bit odd isn't it? here's hoping we not only learn how but get darn good at it.C.J.https://www.blogger.com/profile/12004153268370337727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4071961561223468769.post-85627156094900287092010-02-21T00:22:04.180+08:002010-02-21T00:22:04.180+08:00You are an amazing person. Your parent done good. ...You are an amazing person. Your parent done good. But give yourself some time to re set and re group. I know you know this but doing what you have been doing for your father and then not having that to do is a huge impact situation.....you are very vulnerable right now and need to be on guard. And trust your instincts. Much love, ((((((hugs))))))OmaLindasOldeBaggsandStuftShirtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09589622524456973822noreply@blogger.com